Letโs face it โ arriving at uni can feel like landing on another planet ๐ช. New city. New flat. New people. And while that can be super exciting, it can also feel a little... well, lonely. ๐ฌ
But hereโs the good news: everyone is in the same boat, and making friends is way easier than you think โ especially when you put yourself out there.
๐ Go to That Awkward Fresher's Event (Seriously)
Yes, it might feel cringe at first โ but Fresherโs Week events are designed to help you meet people. Whether itโs quiz nights, pizza parties, or society fairs, these are golden opportunities to strike up conversation.
โHey, I love pizza too!โ โ Boom. Instant connection.
๐ Join Clubs, Societies, or Even That Weird LARP Group
University campuses are buzzing with groups for everything: debate, drama, coding, anime, baking, you name it.
Not only do these give you regular reasons to meet up, but they also help you connect with people who share your interests โ which is basically socialising on easy mode.
โ Start Small โ Flatmates, Course Buddies, and Library Encounters
You donโt have to be the most outgoing person in the world. Start with the people around you:
- Say hi to your flatmates ๐
- Start a convo in lectures ๐งโ๐ซ
- Compliment someoneโs hoodie in the library (low-key fashion networking)
Small gestures = big connections.
๐ก Why It Matters
University isnโt just about grades. Some of the best things youโll take away are the friendships and memories.
- Mental health booster ๐ง โ
- Study support squad ๐
- Lifelong mates ๐ฌ
- Fun youโll never forget ๐
๐ TL;DR: Go For It
Yes, putting yourself out there can be scary. But itโs so worth it.
๐ฌ Say hi
๐ฏ Show up
๐ Be open
๐ฅ And remember: everyoneโs looking for their people too.
So take a deep breath, step into that room, and start building your uni tribe โ one smile at a time. ๐
Need budget-friendly ways to socialise? Check out our guide to saving money on UK nights out ๐ค๐ป